When Children Divulge To Their Parents

Everyone says childhood is the best phase of life. For many, it might be true, but think again : Is childhood really the happiest chapter for every child?

Today, countless stories of child abuse remind us that not every child grows up in joy. Both boys and girls fall victim to molestation and rape, often at the hands of strangers and, horrifyingly, sometimes even by family members. Many remain silent, paralyzed by fear and threats, unable to confide even in their parents. At an age meant for playfulness and discovery, such children are burdened with trauma. Some sink into depression, some lose their lives to internal battles, and some tragically to physical abuse itself. This is not childhood—it is silent suffering. They withdraw, mistrust everyone, and live in isolation, stripped of the innocence every child deserves.

A child’s soul is as pure as their heart yet the acts committed against them remain darkest and most cruel. The sheer frequency of these crimes shocks society and forces parents to restrict their children in fear. Yet, sexual assault is only one wound. Bullying, often dismissed as “harmless,” can sometimes scar deeper than physical abuse. A bullied child begins to question their worth, lose confidence, and slip into mental health struggles. Whether through assault or bullying, the child is left devastated, unable to express pain or seek help.

So, who is at Fault?

This question demands reflection. The responsibility of ruining a child’s innocence doesn’t fall on one person, it lies with all who surround them. When a child speaks with excitement, we hush them, calling it noise. When they withdraw, we dismiss them as useless or negative. Our quick judgments, constant scolding, and harsh words either ignite anger in them or silence them completely. Some grow up with rage, others retreat into loneliness. Either way, their mental strength weakens, and their potential fades.

What is the solution?:

The answer lies in friendship, empathy, and communication. Children must not only be told to treat parents as friends, but parents too must step down from anger, listen, and support. A simple assurance that “we are here for you” can make a child feel protected.

According to a survey by Darkness to Light, only a third of child sexual abuse cases are ever identified—and even fewer are reported. Prevention begins at home. Parents and society must act as counsellors, guardians, and protectors before trauma takes root. Therapists may heal severe cases, but if we listen, care, and act early, professional help may never be needed. Because truly, prevention is always better than cure.