When Did Inner Peace Become a Measure of Success?

Inner peace is often said to come from within. It is believed that if you are at peace internally, you can perform at your best externally. The idea suggests that peace is not materialistic but idealistic, which I believe is only partially true. I am not saying that inner peace comes from external validation or possessions, but consider someone who has constantly struggled with financial instability. For such a person, earning more money could become a path to achieving inner peace.

My point is that people have started treating inner peace as a trend and have limited its meaning to something purely internal. In reality, inner peace is subjective and can differ from person to person. The source of peace may vary, but the feeling of peace remains universal — it simply exists in different forms for different individuals.

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The illusion of having it all 

Everything has certain limitations, but we are often unable to accept them. The urge to have it all or do it all makes it more difficult to gain inner peace. But if we choose to understand that everything around us is, in many ways, an illusion created by our mind, then it would become much easier for us to accept realities and make peace with them.

Control is the real peace, and that control is also limited to our expectations and emotions. If we are able to gain power over them, then nothing can affect us for long. We can heal and become stronger every time.

Inner Peace as Creative Space

We directly relate inner peace to our well-being, but it can be more than that. It creates space for creative thinking. Being constantly surrounded by noise and people blocks our minds, making us unable to trace who we are as a person and what is actually important to us. Peace provides us with a space where we can choose an identity and grow our own ideas around it.

Inner Peace as Emotional Maturity, Not Achievement

We, as people, have also started seeing inner peace as something to be achieved. We have become so performative that we have forgotten the real meaning of inner peace. It has become the new success nowadays — too simple to define, but too difficult to accomplish.

The Quiet Redefinition of Success

In today’s generation, everything is so scattered that we are continuously running and actually forgetting the main idea behind it — which is to stay still and feel. The conditioning of our society has made us believe that we are like projects of our own, on which we have to continuously work with the intention of getting better. But that is not always necessary. It is completely okay to not be okay all the time and to make peace with it, which sounds very simple but is extremely difficult to achieve.

So, do you also think inner peace is something we should start working on again, or should we just be okay with whatever and however things are?